How do we listen?

1) We notice

– But do we notice assumptions as well as information?

– Emotion and energy as well as ideas?

2) We filter to recall (and forget)

– On the basis of thought-out criteria?

– Or is it more haphazard?

3) Also, we can be more aware and mindful if we listen with our feelings.

 

So here is a ladder of listening…

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-Listen behind the emotion (what is not being said)

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-Listen to the emotion

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-Listen for information, facts and data

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-Listen partially or from a distance

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-Not listening

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Much time is spent at the bottom.

The most effective listening is at the top……

Tags: behaviour, thinking