Before ‘who am I’,

lets consider ‘what are we’?

The sum total of our roles?    Father?  Sister? Colleague?

Or is there more?

Actually, what is your ‘guiding purpose’ ?

OR

What really motivates you?  What makes you tick?  What are your values?

It took Jayne a while to realise that it wasn’t feeling important at work that made her feel good, but having a chance to encourage people wherever she went – to get into conversations with them and help out.

On reflection she discovered she hadn’t been brought up (or made) to put herself first all the time, but to live as if reciprocity, rapport and commitment were the norm.

Tags: behaviour, values